I am really glad to see that things have taken such a positive turn in your sitch, and that they are staying that way-at least for now.
However, I am saddened at the turn this thread has taken. Perhaps I am just too sensitive, though. When I read about how we have to stand on faith, etc and just believe and our Ms will be saved...I have to wonder how it is that I've prayed for myself, my husband, my family for almost two years now, with no success. I absolutely believed that we would get back together. Right up until two months ago, when I found out about the new ow and H started taking my kids to sleep at her place every Sunday. And now, we are in divorce negotiations. By the end of the summer, I expect to be a divorced woman.
This should not be happening. I had so many people at my church praying for us. If God really wanted this M to work - and if, as you have said, H's free will is not the issue - then I would not be in this position.
Shoot - I am crying now. I have to go.
Please, don't blame all of us who aren't where we want to be for our M problems.
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