read "the proper care and feeding of husbands" by Dr. Laura, something tells me you are doing "more of the same" that didnt' work the first time.

The constant arguing means there is a vicous pattern when you both talk that needs to be broken.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.