about the place, plain and simple, bring it up. Say something to the fact that the lease is coming up and that you were wondering wheter you should renew it or moving out. Is he still going to C? taking meds? depression does keep many Hs from coming back.
Mostly you must be his friend and listening ear, my H would come to me and talk to me when he was at his worst (while still separated) and the fact that Iwas there and heard him out made him realize I truly cared for him. Would the C see you both for couples counceling?
just my 2c
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.