W is nuts, and I need to detach......

[~Sol]

Also want to point out that my R with W is deteriorating very fast. we are going back and forth - with her accusing me not having any friends, not liking sex, not satisfying her, that it's all in my head, nothing happened with her and OM, that I am going crazy and need to see a shrink (which I am but for different reasons)...etc, etc.

And I am telling her we need MC, asking her why she won't go (BS answers......she doesn't "feel" like she needs it), she won't quit her job or work days instead of nights.....

So I told her I have consulted with a lawyer, and now she is panicking.....

I have invited her to go to MC with me, compliments of my insurance.

And she hasn't apologized about her outburst yesterday when she gloated over me. I, in fact, told her I was sorry for everything, if it matters to her or not.

Basically, my M is not where it needs to be. I can love her unconditionally until the sky turns purple.....but my M will not change - or rather, she won't. So I am going to post something that will create controversy to a point, but my sitch is more complicated.....