I do appreicate all the advice as I don't want a divorce. I do have a couple questions. Do I wait for him to call? If he calls or visits do I act liek everything is okay? I guess I just need to know how to be right now. My work is being supportive by letting me take time off if needed. I work in Alcohol and Drug Counseling so they understand. I have read divorce busting when we went through the first divorce and just ordered a copy. I jsut need to know hwat I can do now that won't push him further away.