here you are at the top O' my list and i can't add much. Ian has said everything I would as well as Amy.
I see you going dark, and all of a sudded all heck breaks loose. I think H is making damn sure to suck you into the drama so you aren't too far out of his reach when he gets HIS stuff figured out. He is talking a good story about D and he has for 2 weeks or more but he has yet to proceed..........
When I had to obtain my LS I just did it, I didn't threaten I just opened the phone book and got a L, W found out after the fact. thats what a serious person does. Your H is out for his pound of flesh, he thinks hurting you will end his own pain, it's gonna take time for him to realize that it won't work. There is no D in progress until you have been served, remember that.
I can see he still has some feelings for you by the way he has done certain things. Myspace girl and this EA OW or whatever you wanna call her.
Maybe she really did just show up, he sees her there and knows it's gonna anger you, he is working through what HE needs to do to r with you so he tells your D what he did. Maybe he didn't want you to know that EA OW was there because he was in fear of you calling it quits.........see where I am going, kinda explains the later phone call doesn't it.
Now as a man who has had this happen I have an idea of what he feels and why but there is nothing you can do to change this, except for 1 thing you are in the process of doing. Find another job.
If you need some more you know where to find me
Keep your chin up, it doesn't look as bad to me as it does to you.
