She called me this morning and told me that it was not needed for me to send the papers to my lawyer. I should have just signed them and left it at that. I passed the buck b/c I didn't want her mad at me. I told her my lawyer was handling everything, but told her I was there for her if she needed anything. She sounds so down and depressed. As Homer McDonald from "Stop your divorce" said, if you really want divorce you should be happy. Her issues will resurface after she realizes I was only a scapegoat for her own issues. I'm just venting and I stil feel good. I did all I could do to save this marriage.