The biggest challenge for anyone here in my opinion is to find the balance between not being a doormat and yet dying to self.
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This is where I am at right now Amy. Trying to find a balance between what I should accept and not accept. Where I draw the line between remaining friends and being there for my H, without letting him "walk all over me" and trash my emotions.
I think I am getting closer, but not quite there yet. Time and patience. I also know what you mean by the whole 32 vs 20 months, I have been dealing with this since Dec/05, but it seems like much, much longer.
