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AmyC #1082416 06/04/07 07:25 PM
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No there were two that were "issues".

But policing my husband? No.

And I disagree that I haven't gotten up. It was two weeks ago. I've been better the past few days, although I've felt like maybe this is what's supposed to happen and THEN I'm bad for not standing.

You really can't win here. You let them go as requested and you're not standing, you're morals suck because you cheated....if you can't stop throwing it in my face, how would I expect him to?


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AmyC #1082421 06/04/07 07:29 PM
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So when do we get aroudn to the fixing, I'm just kind of sitting here waiting to sing Cumbaya when y'all figure this sh^t out

UA, sit your happy a$$ down. You leave here and you will regret it. The only one who can challenge yoru faith is you. Amy can give her interpretation, but it is up to you to know the truth.

Amy, I know what you are doing here, and to some extent I agree with the challenge and call to arms. However, much like we have had to do in the past with some other members of this forum, timing is everything.

The bottom line is this, UA needs to find her path again, whatever that path may be. None of us can put her back on it, she must take that leap of faith herself. We have pointed out some things that she can now look at and decide what she wants to do. Why don't we give her that opportunity and support her decision when she is ready to make it????


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KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
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Sigh #1082426 06/04/07 07:31 PM
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One last thing...

Everyone, and I mean everyone deals with these things differently.

No one is trying to be mean, or uncaring. We are all here to help each other.

The problem with posting messages is there is no feeling to them, it is open to your own interpretation as to what tone is being taken.

Amy, god bless you for being so direct. It really clarifies things for me sometimes.



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I'd paste 'em all together like the big, happy, loving family we are!

sofaraway #1082459 06/04/07 07:48 PM
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Amy, I know what you are doing here, and to some extent I agree with the challenge and call to arms. However, much like we have had to do in the past with some other members of this forum, timing is everything.


Not this time, Ian.

I brought my GENERAL rant to my own thread.

Had I meant to say it directly to UA, I'd have damn sure told her so on HER thread.

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No, thats what I'm telling you Amy, I could see that we had a shrapenel affect going on and that it was for you. Just unfortunate that the timing on it hit other targets.....

I did not mean to imply that it was directed at UA, if you took it that way I apologize.....

I was trying to tell you that I for the most part agree with your rant. However there are some folks out there really working this magic. In fact many of them......

So while we rant about some things that are disturbing to us, it's good to also see that there are some folks around here who are really getting it....


Ian


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Dude I know there are people "getting it" and getting positive results. I just want to see that happening with more of my peeps on this board but nobody (and I'm talking about old timers, not newbies) seems to want to break the status quo.


You ready?





You ready?






(CLAP!) Let's get it on!

AmyC #1082495 06/04/07 08:04 PM
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You called me dude

Thanks Mistress Amy may I have another?????

So what is an old timer??? What am I now?

The fact that it is so simple once you grasp it just pisses you off sometimes doesn't it Amy?

Just curious if you read your thread from 3 weeks ago or not?


Ian


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KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
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Originally Posted By: AmyC
Dude I know there are people "getting it" and getting positive results. I just want to see that happening with more of my peeps on this board but nobody (and I'm talking about old timers, not newbies) seems to want to break the status quo.


You ready?





You ready?






(CLAP!) Let's get it on!


Better not take me in as one of your peeps then !


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Hell, I have stood for this long (almost jumped a few times) so I am in it for the long haul. So what if it takes days, weeks, months, years.........I have plenty of time before I am old and gray. (Ummmmmm, wait..........let me re-think that)











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The fact that it is so simple once you grasp it just pisses you off sometimes doesn't it Amy?


What the heck are you TALKING about?

NOTHING is SIMPLE in this!
But it is HARDER, if you're constantly moving, adjusting, manipulating and refusing to hope.

3 weeks ago? Let's see, what I falling or climbing back out of the pit?

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