I think it may be a female thing. I could have slept in my car and would have been ok with it. I have never made a reservation in a hotel for my wife and me so I had no idea about this star thing. Anyway If I was going to be paying for a 3 to 5 star hotel there better be sex involved. (I knew that was not going to happen). And yes I know baby steps. 2 months seems like two years. No major bad things happened and she even kind of made fun of her self over the candybar statement. I know I am not supposed to think of the OM but sometimes especially since they have been intimate and she won’t be intimate with me at this time I feel like the 3 rd party. The strange thing is since I hare not looked at the phone log I don’t even know if she is still talking to him as much.
Husband
Last edited by husband; 06/04/0706:17 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know