It'll happen, it's happening. Let it come to you naturally, don't force it, she'll come around as you are. Do it as partners, not as competing individuals.
That's one of the big things that came out of my challenges last Thursday. Not only was I only thinking of myself and trying to fix it all, I was not letting the situation progress naturally. It needs to move at her pace, not mine. Amazingly that's where I now find the elusive patience I have been looking for all this time! More interestingly is that I think by my poor focus I was creating all that anger inside of me.
Still a bit nervous about tonight but am slowly settling down. How we end the evening seems to be a really troublesome area for me but rather than try to control it I need to just let it happen and be happy about the whole evening! Let her drive it and go with the flow.
Last edited by catfan; 06/04/0706:16 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
