Madonna/Whore Complex Part 4

[COG]

Heywyre,

First, forget about the 15 minutes. If my W was accounting for every minute I spent I'd be a wreck. I'd have to come up with all kinds of lame excuses because what I am really doing would probably not meet her expectations of me. I know how hard it must be to trust him, but geez, you've got to give him a little more space. You'll suffocate him.

Second, I think it is a VERY BAD idea to press him about not doing the homework. Leave that to your ST. If you are really uncomfortable and unsure then call your ST and ask him what you should do.

You've got to look at this transformation in terms of baby steps. Don't expect this to just go all YOUR way, right off the get go. Your H's heart and soul are open, but his mind and body have'nt caught up yet. Be patient! Count your blessings! It seems like the miracle that your H is even willing to go to ST has been just swept aside, and your back on the attack because he's still a schmuck because he's not performing to your standards, ie the homework.

Just worry about YOU! Be open, be willing, and don't judge or try to control your H. Let reality unfold, and let your ST coach, guide, and lead your H through this. Don't worry, the ST will make him accountable. You don't need to go making yourself an obstacle, or a point of frustration right now. And you should definately not treat him like a child. That might stroke your ego, but it won't get his penis hard.

Hang in there, you're doing fine.

God Bless,

COG