I am going to be the bad guy around here again today. I am on the outside looking in and I see many ways for you to move forward and let things be for now. Don't keep feeding him with stuff. You are giving him what he wants. Let it be.
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I did say it wasn't about her, it was about asking our D to lie. I said I know you're done with me, you don't love me or want me - I get that. You've told me time and again. I get that.Don't even mention this to him right now. Of course he is going to say you are right. He doesn't know what he wants so he takes the easy way out.
That's not the issue - you can date whoever you want - you've already said you can.Don't discuss this either.
He said you're right - I don't want you and I can date whoever I want and if I want to date someone, they're going to be around D.This is the anger coming out in him. You backed him up against a wall and he felt threatened so he said what he felt would hurt you. He is going to say whatever will make you mad so it is easier on him. Guilt will kill him so he thinks pushing some of it on you will help him out. Don't let him do this to you.
