yes I did Jazz. It doesn't matter anymore. He's being a total ass, he hates me, he's shown it and dammit I do deserve better. Hell with this marriage - he's right - it wasn't great to begin with.
I am working on me and our D and making US happy.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
I did say it wasn't about her, it was about asking our D to lie. I said I know you're done with me, you don't love me or want me - I get that. You've told me time and again. I get that.
That's not the issue - you can date whoever you want - you've already said you can.
He said you're right - I don't want you and I can date whoever I want and if I want to date someone, they're going to be around D.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
It doesn't matter anymore.Do you really believe this? He's being a total ass,I agree here he hates me,No he doesn't. he's shown it and dammit I do deserve better.Maybe you do deserve better or maybe he is just trying to hurt you the way you hurt him. I know you apologized to him and such but now he has to do this for him. Would you want him back the way he is acting? Give him the time to come to grips with himself and everything. Hell with this marriage - he's right - it wasn't great to begin with.I don't believe this at all. No marriage is perfect.
I am working on me and our D and making US happy.I think this is what you need. Put everything to do with your H to the back of your head and don't think about things. It is hard in the beginning but gets easier. You still have good days and bad days but each day you waste making yourself sick over your situation is one less day to enjoy with you daughter. Keep your spirits up. You have one thing he doesn't.....more time with your daughter. Suck it up and move forward.
I asked how her weekend was and did she have fun? She volunteered that there was a party and started telling who all was there and then stopped and said I don't want to tell you anymore of the people....then I asked if she was there and she looked at me (I knew) -- she said yes but I'm not supposed to tell you because daddy said you'd get mad and wouldn't let me see him anymore.
Don't you think it MIGHT be a little too soon to drag some new woman into her life?! Jesus - her life's in a shambles right now already - but hey, let's confuse her some more!
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....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
ahhh ua, my god am I feeling for you right now. I can see your pain clearly and understand it and really wish someone was there to just hug you right now.
The scorned husband is striking back, I fealt that at some point this might happen. He was wronged and is hurt and has decided to punish you for what you did to him by doing the same to you.
He hasn't been able to resolve it on his own with changing his feelings so he instead has chose a path to hurt you back. Silly silly man.
Deal with the daughter issue, move on and see what happens down the orad for you. Your feelings may never come back for him, then again they might. Only you will know when and if the time comes for you to decide what to do.
I will say it again, just because you need to keep hearing it, let go and have faith. Your an incredibly strong woman UA, don't lose sight of that and stay focused on exactly what you said, you and your D.
that's fine UA, let him move forward if that's what he needs to do. Euphoria and revenge only last so long.
Yes, set boundaries as far as your D goes with other people being brought into her life. There is no need for that and you need to tell teh prick to stop the bullshit.
