Now, don't let this talk get you down. Remember your W is perfectly capable of making up her own mind. (I'm stealing this but...) the things we think up in our head are probably worse than what's really going on.

Also remember the friends and family just want us to be happy. So if the person leaving says she's miserable, her friends and family will tell her to do whatever will get her happiest the fastest. Problem is, divorce isn't going to make her happy. It will make things worse. She know that in her heart, that's why she's struggling to go through with it - I think.

Seeing you doing well, and being happy, and being with your S, and showing her you're trustworthy, etc. Those things will bring her back. Stay positive, you've had some nice little signs popping up lately, focus on those!

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...