According to my H, you can have affairs in a M as long is it is for love. For the right reasons...not just sex.
Easily the stupidest thing I've EVER heard. He has NO idea what love is. He's confusing it with lust.
Sorry, but your husband is an idiot. He's trying to hurt you by talking about the OW, stop letting him. Friends don't hurt their friends - he's full of crap.
You're right to detach, I'd say do it permanantly except where your D is concerned. At this point who cares if he thinks you're cold, he's a complete A$$.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
