Why do these things happen...for the better I hope

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She has enought people telling her it's OK to be divorced.

I believe my W has enough people telling her that also. Mainly her friends, probably even family to a degree.

What gets me, and it is something I never thought about in the past is that D has become such and everyday occurence. Nobody takes it as a shock anymore, it has become almost like taking the trash out.
Everyone feels for the person who does not want the D, and at the same time I believe those same people tell the one that does want it, to just do what they want. Does anyone ever talk to the one leaving and say anything, like hold on, have you thought everything out, are you sure you are making the right decision or an impulsive one. Is it the love missing or something else. Do they suggest counciling, I think not. They just say do what you have to do.

Ok, I think my day is starting to go down the tubes.