H sits there and says to me that his OW and him have the same view on love, and it is the only woman that has ever shared the same view as him. That you can not control whom you fall in love with...
Then she says, if your wife thinks she can conrol who she falls in love with, then she has never been in love.
I was like WTF!!!!
Some 22 year old kid is tellng me I have never been in love! While her H is away on training period for the army, she is talking to another man she has "fallen in love with" telling him I don't know what love is!!
Yes you can not control who you first fall in love with, typically it does "just happen", but after that first 6 months to a year, it does not remain a feeling but becomes a comittment.
BUT...if you are married, then you have a responsibility to your spouse to not go down that path.
Am I wrong in my thinking here? My H thinks I am.
According to my H, you can have affairs in a M as long is it is for love. For the right reasons...not just sex.
Geez...I need to detach from all of this nonsense!
