All my friends are married and over time I seem to have faded out of doing things with them, guess I am just like the 5th wheel and not really fitting in anyplace but at home.
LOL, I'm in the exact same boat. But you know what? being able to do things yourself is a skill we need to acquire. Being with friends and family is a nice distraction, but I think it kind of feeds into the neediness thing (it does for me anyway). So, doing things alone is a 180. I have to like/love myself in order for my W to, so this is all just part of the process to me. It does feel weird. It feels weird not having my W to go home to every night. But look what I did with it when I had that?!?!?! We have to be confident, independent MEN! When we achieve that our Ws will be attracted to us again, and we can make things better for our families. Just a thought that's kind of working for me, maybe it'll help you out too...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
