It's nice to see your name. I hope you're doing well. I'll have to look and see if you have a thread. Yes, I'm in a good place right now, but I know things can always change and the main thing is to try and be prepared for that.
I definitely still sometimes have insecurities and fears. My husband may be changing jobs soon and I have some uncomfortable feelings about that.... but maybe that's a good thing? It will keep me from becoming "too comfortable." Not that I want to be on edge... but I think it's good to be prepared for change. When ups and downs are expected they are a little easier to navigate. Not that I wouldn't have the "sick to my stomach, can't eat anything, shell-shock" feeling you get when you're marriage is falling apart... but at least when you have a life, good support and are working to try and stay in a positive mental place things are slightly easier.
Nara,
Thanks for the positive words! I looked at your blog. How are you doing now?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
