My W just called to see if I would be willing to go to couseling with her tonight. She doesn't know if that she can get me in with her but the fact that she asked is a total 180 on her part. I might be going into this to get beaten up, but I have to be willing to try. This might be my wife's way of convincing me that it truely is over between us and just accepted it or maybe something else entirely. I really do not know.