I have to agree with you. My H is not good for me or the OW or our kids. He is not good for himself either. I do feel sorry for him in some ways. I can really see a battle going on in him. The whole I do not want to hurt you but yet he still does. I really do not think that these are just words. I think he really feels this way but can not control it. He actually said this to me yesterday and then walked over to me and hugged me and said it again.
Wow he seems like one really messed up guy. I am sure that you all can see the same in your H's.
Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007