I sent my H a text yesterday saying I needed to talk to him, so he called me last night. I just wanted to tell him that I am going to buy a house (I am living with my father right now) and it is something that I need to do for me. He seemed okay with it (should it bother him???) and just asked some questions about it. Then he wanted to talk about other things and I cut the conversation short. I could tell that this surprised my H. I felt pretty good, like I was taking more control of my sitch but today, I am feeling pretty blue. My H seems to be detaching more and more. Right now, it seems like we are having less and less contact. We have been separated over 3 months now and people on this BB say that isn't very long but it feels like forever to me. I feel like we should be moving toward each other but right now I feel like we are getting farther away from each other all the time. Does anyone have any suggestions to keep hope alive?
