It's a big risk, but they always say that you can't get big rewards if you don't take big risks.
Sol, I agree that you should should stay in a M because you and your W truely love each other and are committed to each other. This is whats best for you, your W and your kids. It will take a lot of work for a lot of us to get to that point. Unfortunately for me it does not look like I will get to that point with my STBX(First time I have used that).
