Just thought I would mention, that comment your H made..
"Give him the divorce, or he will cheat on you." Don't take it too much to heart my dear. My H said the same thing. Your H is really angry and hurt. I can't remember how long it has been since the A you had, but these things take time and patience, and LOTS of it.
I am similar to you. I want all of the answers and I wanted them yesterday. Sometimes there are no answers. Sometimes you have to wait and be patient until the answer shows itself.
If you try to force it, you will not hear what you want.
Let's detach my friend, we can do this together.
Get up, dust yourself off, and move forward. You do deserve better than this, and so do I.
Give it a little time. Calm down before you say anything to him so that you can do it calmly. No need to kick him in the nuts right now....He is doing that to himself.
Step back and breathe.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
I'm not going to be angry. There are limitations to acceptable behavior and asking our D to lie to me, and telling her if she tells me that I won't allow him to have her anymore is complete bullsh*t. There is no excuse for that.
And he wants friendly?
my @$$
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
