that wretched thread of mine that was never ending as finally locked, just wanted to say that everything is still the same, not heard or seen xh and we are still due to move out of his house by friday although we don't have anywhere to go yet, I can see it is all going to get rather nasty when he finds out we haven't gone, but I ain't putting my kid on the streets or in an unsavourable neighborhood for no-one. If I can I will try and link to my old thread but don't have much time right now.