My h and I have no kids, so I am holding on for love. I know my h still loves me, and I still love him, but ow is still in the picture. It has been about 6 months and I am about done.
I think that we had a good relationship for a lot of years, and I still believe we can make things better than they were before, but I just don't know if my h has all that hard work in him. For some reason he thinks relationships should be easy (ow brainwashing). He wouldn't have done this if he was happy and loved me (ow again). He has rewritten a lot of our history. I think my h is having a mlc at 29. He is depressed and miserable. If he was happy, I would have let go months ago. He is finally seeing a C, so maybe that will help him.
At least if our m ends, I can say that I did everything I could to try and save it and I think everyone on this board can say that. A lot of people would have quit and never looked back. It takes a strong person, to pick yourself after being hurt so bad and stand beside your spouse as they hurt you more and more with the hope that we can all have great, new marriages with our current spouses. It's a big risk, but they always say that you can't get big rewards if you don't take big risks.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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