My H wants to remain friends, which is a good thing, yet I am trying to deal with my own emotions, and not let him see me hurting, and the only time he seems to need to talk to me is about the OW and how happy she makes him.
Or that there is a problem between them.
I try to lend a compassionate ear, but sometimes it is very difficult. Last night I lashed out at him. He was angry. He says my comments "hurt him". Yeah...ok
He says I should not be hurt by his new found love and if I loved him, I would let him go and be happy for him. The ironic thing is, I am happy for him, yet still trying to deal with the fact that we are no longer married or together.
I really, really need to detach, I know it is easier said than done. I also need to go dark for a while. Unfortunaltey, he has my daughter, so it makes it a little more difficult.
I will just have to keep our conversations to our daughter and any issues that come up with her and leave the R talk alone. He will see it as me being a cold heartless person again whom doesn't care, but there is not much I can do about that.
