I am starting this thread to stir up (or clear up) what is a marriage really worth saving for when there are kids. Some would say to stay for the kids sake....that was my thinking for a long time, but I was unhappy in my M. Others would say to stay for love, if 2 people still love each other - with real unconditional love......a solid R, with a solid foundation.....(that is what I want now).
I feel I have wasted too many years by not taking any real action in the past to try to improve my M a long time ago....but from what others have told me about my sitch...it was not a good R from the beginning. It will take YEARS of therapy to try to get my M to where it needs to be.
But as it turns out, I cannot do any more but file for separation. Nothing has changed in my M/R with my W.
Last edited by sol1696; 06/04/0701:03 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
