Questions for all the "Cheated"

[Dr LOve]

My head is just as screwed up as everybody else’s here so take my advice with a grain of salt. I have had 2 I.C. Sessions and 1 joint session it has been over a month since. I did feel a lot better after each session. They will not give you any answers. But they ask the right questions to make you think. They are Councilors are UN attached (detached) emotionally to your relationship. So they see thinks in black and white. I was worried about MY W. She was going to I.C with another Councilor. I told mine that I find it hard to believe that her C would condone her affair, The C would not tell her to stop. My C. told me her C. would not tell her to stop anything. Her C would ask her Questions to make her think and realize on her own why she should stop. So this takes time. I have not continued my joint sessions because of scheduling issues with my W. The individual sessions I am reserving (I only have 3 more paid for by insur.) for when I am in really bad shape. Luckily I have been able to come here when I am down and you guy and gals pick me back up slap me around a little and I feel better.
C. to me is like if ya ever had too much to drink, ya get a sick feeling in your stomach. Ya know you are going to throw up but don’t want to but after ya do ya feel a whole lot better.
So go to the C spill your guts (figuratively speaking). You will feel a whole lot better

Husband (the inpatient one)
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