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My DB coach Joanne gave me this advice amost a year ago.

With MLC, less is more.



I interpret it like this.
Fewer words, the more of the convo they remember.
A compliment, remembered.
An appriciation, tatooed on the heart.
No guilt, more thoughts about what they gave up for their freedom.

Not trying to change or give suggestions: honoring them as a person.

Agreeing with them, even if you KNOW that the sky is blue and they think it is green. "you could be right".

A quick hello and disappear, they will want more of you, and wonder what is up.

Less is More.

I am going to remember that for tomorrow.
It will help me let go and let God.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.
Holly06 #1081062 06/03/07 11:04 PM
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Hooly

Good luck tomorrow. I know you will be fine. I am sending prayers with you!!

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I don't need luck. It is a business agreement, and only that.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.
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I don't need luck. It is a business agreement, and only that.
I have God. Who needs luck?


I almost typed
who needs love!!!!!!
or who needs lust!!!!!


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.
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I don't need luck. It is a business agreement, and only that.
I have God. Who needs luck?


I almost typed
who needs love!!!!!!
or who needs lust!!!!!


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.
Holly06 #1081070 06/03/07 11:09 PM
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Okay

God will be there with you! Forget the luck!!!

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Holly06 #1081078 06/03/07 11:23 PM
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Is this like a trick question or something ???? \:\)

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Holly,
You've got the right idea. Let go and let God.

I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.


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Nope.
I will be fine financially. Even if it ends up not being fair. But my Lawyer has got my back! He will not let me accept an offer that is not in my best interest.
He knows he has a squeeky clean client, and a dirty husband.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.
Holly06 #1081521 06/04/07 11:16 AM
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Dearest Holly
Thanks again for your words of wisdom. I will be thinking of you .
Godspeed

Bislandgal


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