How long have you guys been separated? I know it says bomb dropped 1/07, but did you separate right away? I still say I'm too new to this, but I would try to not mention R say for a week. Try to give yourself small goals like that!! Trust me, I have had many a dialog with myself fighting against saying anything. Example: Yesterday on the drive home, all the boys were asleep and had the MP3 players on. I thought about asking, but in the end decided against it. Usually I would have taken advantage of that time. Not this time. I'm a talker, so biting my tongue is very hard for me... LOL!!
I know one of the reasons I let DH take DS for the night is cuz I'll have to see him the next day. It's just a short time, and you really can't get into anything in that amount of time... LOL!! So even though you're afraid it's too close to D arrangements, you might want to give it some more thought.
