My H and I have been separated for almost a year. I had mentioned to him about 3 weeks ago that I was suspicious of someone at work, so I checked their computer history and yes they had been looking at porn sights during company time. I chose not to say anything to anyone at work, but yes my H knew I was snooping at the computer history.
H always comes over to the house on Sunday's and watches the kids while I work. For whatever reason, I decided to check the history on my computer after H leaves and for the past 3 weeks 2 porn websites have shown up. Now H is very computer savy and if he didn't want me to see the sights he could have erased the history. First of all, I am wondering if he purposely is going to these sights to see if I say something, since he knew I snooped at work. Like a test to see if I B$%&# and complain when I have caught him viewing sights in the past. Second of all do I confront him about viewing the sights?
Yes, I am bothered by him viewing the sights especially while he is supposedly watching our children. We are already in a very fragile state right now. If I confront this could just push him over the edge. I am trying to restore our relationship not continue to break it down.
What would you do? Anyone else have this issue?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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