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[andyv]

Hey Husband,

I think your trip went better than you expected.

It is so easy to overanylise everything that your W said and did during the trip.

I always wondered why my W didn't look me in the eyes when she spoke to me, was it guilt about OM, guilt about what she was doing, dislike for me etc etc etc.

I don't worry about these things anymore. Or things that she does. It makes it easier for me to concentrate on improving myself and what I was doing around her, without having to worry about what she was doing as well.

It was good that you did not force the issue of intimacy re hand holding etc. I have a feeling that they know where we are coming from and we should leave it up to them to initiate any of that.

Did she manage to crack open a few Rum and cokes?

Anyway, It does sound like the trip went well and it may be another one of these baby steps that you can work on.

And I hope you weren't busted perving on those sheila's in bikinis, you sly dog.
AndyV