I just got off the phone with my H. I planned out what I was going to say and I pretty much stuck to it other than answering his questions. I told him I just need to buy the house for me and it wasn't because I was "moving on". He seemed okay with it, he just wanted to know some of the details. I know buying the house now is a gamble because he might use it against me later but I think it is something I really need to do. Anyway, my H wanted to talk about other things, but I cut the conversation short. He sounded surprised when I was ending the call. I can only hope that I am doing the right thing.