The weekend with S4 was awesome as always. He actually talked to my mom about "Mommy, Daddy, himself, and our kitty all being back together again." And he told her, "Daddy will be coming home with us soon." He hasn't said those things to anyone but my and W before today. I know he doesn't fully understand what's going on, but hopefully he has some insights.
Whoa! That almost brought a tear to my eye. I bought D3 an Elmo cartoon and how ironic, one of the episodes talks about families! Back to your S4's comment. I picked up D3 yesterday morning and the first thing out of her mouth when we got into the car was, "Daddy, I asked mommy if she loves you and she said, yeah". D3 was all happy. I didn't want to probe, so I changed the subject and asked her what she wanted to do today. I was feeling like I was on cloud 9..lol.. When I talk to D3 on the phone she is always saying that she misses me. I know that W is right there because D3 talks to her too at the same time...I know that I'll be home soon, I am getting a little impatient.
JR, I know it is tough, just do the best you can to keep busy and don't obsess. I know that you are probably a great father to your son. Keep making the most of your times with him and your wife will start to appreciate what you are doing for him and try your best to give her space. No pressure.
