Virginia,

I read and thought...now that is MLC.

But here is what I particularly like:
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So - there we have it folks. Didn't matter where I posted, or what I classified him as - MLC or WAS ... seems the outcome, depending on how we handle it, is often the same.
As I always say, the things that one must do to save a marriage are the same things one must do if the marriage is not saved.

Good luck with your sitch.

IMP