Got a message from W last night.

"Hey, can you have D3 @ my house by 11 tomorrow? Thanks + hope your having fun. Tell her I said I luv her. Have a Good nite!"

I wrote back an hour later and said, "Thanks and yes". I wanted to be brief and not verbose. I arrived this morning and told her about how the event sucked that we went to and that we never went inside.

I then left. As I was leaving, her uncle drove by and honked and waved at me. I waved back happily. I forgot that W just had her hair done yesterday...Oops! I didn't say anything about it. Oh well, she wasn't dressed and she probably would have saw my compliment as not being sincere since she wasn't dressed.

As I started in my above post, I want to ask W to start working on M, but I am not looking forward to a no answer. I know that if that happens, I'll just need to say, okay, no problem and then get outta dodge! I feel like I am in a tough spot. I haven't wore my ring since shortly after separating. I work with ALL women. There are 3 other guys who are married. I am not wearing my ring and women are starting to show an interest in me. They are asking me to lunch, happy hour, etc. What do I do?