I started ready 5 Love Languages and I am going to take a risk when the time is right. I believe my W's languages are Quality time and physical touch. I am going to tell her that I am committed to working on our marriage and ask if she has any suggestions on what I could do to be a better husband. I think I need to put my ring back on. This was a BIG deal to her. She was upset when I didn't wear it golfing. It was not comfortable since I grip the club tight. I think that if I start wearing my ring and speaking her love language, she will see that I am committed to this marriage and not looking outside. This could be the first step towards us growing closer. She also took her ring off about a week after I took mine off. What do you think?