I concur with DNQ, just keep a positve PMA Husband and don't worry about the W.

DNQ,

I have started reading "How to be attractive to Women", do u reckon I should have started with "Superior Man"?

I left her to spew about the pepperoni because It was not really directed at anyone. I understand what you are saying about the SM and DB approaches to each, but I feel at the time it was the right thing to do. She was spewing as she was organising the groceries inside the fridge (re-arranging things). Her best friend was sitting in the kitchen as well, and we both had a chuckle as I left.

But I understand where you are coming from.

I have always been a SM in our relationship, and my W has brought this up as being too controlling. With DBing, you are sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."