Braveheart,

I think some of the insecurity is caused by alot of guilt and shame.

They are not quite sure of the extent of the damage they have caused and are not sure as to how they will be "received".

My Husband has forgotten many of the things that have happened, slowly slowly some of the things are begining to come back.

He will suddenly look strangely at me and tell me that he loves me and would never purposefully do anything to hurt me.

The hard part is reassuring him that I love him, and not being able to fully share my feelings about the things he did to me.

one day I am sure it will happen, but for now, I am trying hard to enjoy this Honeymoon period as I do not know how long it will last.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.