Madonna/Whore Complex Part 4

[Heywyre]

Lou, when you said:

Sounds like it is all about him. What about you?

Maybe I should have explained myself a little more. It is not that he wants to have kids, actually it is quite the opposite. He actually says he never should have had kids because he isn't cut out to be a parent.

What I meant to say was, that's what he views sex as being for - to procreate. If you are not going to do that, or are past the point of doing it) like we are - his response is "what's the point"

This is VERY common for someone with M/W complex

I think it is so good to have the ST you two have. The "don't ruffle any feathers" type of C feels good but changes/improvements take so long.

I agree. As much as I liked the old MC, he was just too passive for my liking. This guy is much more direct and to the point.

I think he is going to have a difficult time giving up what ever it is that keeps him going back to seek the company or just to talk to younger women

This might be the case but if he wants to salvage the M, he is going to have to do it. No different from the alcoholic that wants a drink or the gambler that can't wait to get to the crap tables

Thanks for your honesty and concern