My Marriage feels helpless III

[Heartbroken]

Scott,

I feel for you too..

I have been at this since last Aug and I am dragging my heels on the filing/D thing. H is so hell bent on ending it - not even sure OW is even still in the picture. H is in MLC and wants zero help - just wants to be on his own. Someday when he wakes up he is going to realize the pain he caused me and his two beautiful children and by then I will have moved on. He's agreed to do a full separation to give himself a taste of what D will bring. It's hard swapping the kids - maybe it will prep me for the future. I have very little hope anymore just want to end the sadness.

Hang in there and give it your best fight - more and more states are going for even custody - find the best lawyer!! My H will give me full custody - hell he will do just about anything to end it... Such a sad state we are in hey?!