Always, I have moved on, in fact, I was the one who D XW. I come on here and read, and post from time to time, I like sharing ideas and reading everyone's stich. It gives me great insight into relationships. I remember when me and XW were in counciling together long ago, she asked XW if she was going to have to waller in a pigs pen before she realized it stinks. I guess she made her choice. I have no doubt that she will try at some point in time to reconnect, I;m afraid its just too late, and if she doesn't, well, that;s OK too.