My DB coach Joanne gave me this advice amost a year ago.

With MLC, less is more.



I interpret it like this.
Fewer words, the more of the convo they remember.
A compliment, remembered.
An appriciation, tatooed on the heart.
No guilt, more thoughts about what they gave up for their freedom.

Not trying to change or give suggestions: honoring them as a person.

Agreeing with them, even if you KNOW that the sky is blue and they think it is green. "you could be right".

A quick hello and disappear, they will want more of you, and wonder what is up.

Less is More.

I am going to remember that for tomorrow.
It will help me let go and let God.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.