I'm so sorry it's come down to this for you, Choc. However, you should remember that all the personal growth you are experiencing by dealing with this ordeal like the man all of us here always knew you had the potential to be will always be with you. Unfortunately for your W, the opposite will be true for her. I feel sorry for her when I think about the kind of cr*p relationship she will have if she ends up with the OM. I can hear her pathetic cries of fusion already "I gave up my family life, a loving H and violated my values for you, please love me enough to make it worthwhile."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
