Scott, I feel for you man, my wife left me for a coworker. she gave me the same bs. They are going to do what they are going to do. She had om spend the night while she had d7 and the S*** hit the fan! That is a line that she should not have crossed! I have no choice but to drop the gloves and do it. I'm standing for D and I. If she wants out ok. it hurts like an MF and I don't want it but she started it and I have to end it.