Nice post.

I have heard the "you did not fight, you did not act like you wanted the M, you wanted a D, too."

But I have no misconception that this was said out of reconnection.

Rather, it was said out of an attempt to share guilt....that the D is mutual among both parties, and H is not totally to blame.

Great points....get on with life, and move forward. For yourself, not to try to lure the MLCer back.

Best of luck, Brave!