Thanks everyone, it is so nice to have this forum and hear words of wisdom from those that have been there. H and I are getting along fine though he remains emotionally unavailable and sleeping in the basement. I am really trying to focus on my two sweet boys and let him do his thing, though I can't help feeling terrible for him as I know he will someday regret missing these wonderful moments with his newborn. I'll keep everyone posted on any new developments.
