Things are remaining peaceful. My brother mentioned the other day how "easy" the vibe is around us now. He asked is she is just playing nice so I don't fight her about everything involved in the separation/D. Obviously, I don't know, if I did I would play the lotto immediately as I would be a first class psychic.
W continues to push the issue around the 4th of July plans. What do I want to do? On and on. It's almost an hourly question. Problem is, my kids are around when she brings it up so I really don't want to get into at those times.
I haven't been pushing the issue of separation. I am going ahead with my plans regarding an apartment, dividing our assets and the planning necessary to carry out the separation W desires.
I haven't been pushing the issue as it's impossible to broach that topic without getting into an R talk. I have no desire to hear how undesirable I am, how much she doesn't want to be with me socially, emotionally, sexually or any other -ally. That's like banging my head against the wall and saying I like it because it is sort of a pat on the head.
I think I will let her bring it up and then I will reserve my response to just a few sentences. "You know I would not want this, yet I have accepted that you do. I want you to be happy and you believe this will go a long way towards making you happy. Now, let's work out the financial issues, I have a place to move into as soon as I leave, the only thing left for us to do is talk to the kids, when do you want to do that?"
You want to know the crazy part of this thing?
We've had sex more in the last couple of weeks then in months prior. Outside of that, there is no physical contact; no hugs, kisses, nada, zip, nothing.
